1) I have tried to make this work with three different ISP's, three different laptops, and many different models rooms.

The models cam goes offline (chat still works) displayed is "the model is offline". It usually comes back in 10-20 seconds. If it takes too long and you are in private show, you will be disconnected from the show which really ruins the mood.

I refuse to ask a model to private cam until I can trust the link to stay up.